I can't imagine how you feel. I am so sorry. So, so sorry.
I know that you never thought THIS would be your life/marriage. I'm so sorry.
Me: 35 Him: 43 Together: 19 1/2 years 1st Bomb (IDLYAM): March 2011 2nd Bomb (OW): April 2011 He abandons home/bills/everything: May 2011 He's bought a new house for OW: September 2011
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
and hugs...and how was her demeanor when she told you? Celebratory?
A tad cautious? A thread of shame? Hmm too much to ask for there. OTOH what can she say or do? Blame the kid? That poor child...
well, does this clear up anything for you? (I'm not being sarcastic, just asking).
((( )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
Be strong for your child! You need to be the strong center spoke in the center of a a crazy, changing world.