Mike, easy for you to say (man who has a girlfriend). We'll all get there, eventually.
The bomb-iversaries were just weird - never realized how many were in Nov. I think it's great that I can't remember the exact date, anymore!! I didn't think I'd ever get to that point.
Hey Donna better watch out...Mike's girlfriend is his wife now!! lol
Speaking of bombs, mine was in June but he didn't move out until November because he wanted to keep the holidays normal...WTF??? They are so crazy...still.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Oh and I just remembered, I found out about his first affair in November. Just in time for Thanksgiving. Poor November, getting stuck with a bunch of crazy memories.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
We actually reconciled on Thanksgiving 2002, after his 6 week affair that started shortly after our son was born... So thanksgiving time is good and bad.
Moving on! I replied to GG "Sure it would be fun to do dinner with them, then you and I could grab a drink after"
No more sitting back trying to be a 'pleaser'. Just going to be up front and that way no second guessing. Guys will either like me, or not! But I am done mind reading to try and pick the 'right' answer...
(wouldn't it be refreshing if the gay guy had a name like Mike)
Hell no.....I don't think that would be refreshing at all...
you all are depressing me with this bomb anniversary talk...
hell, this is surviving....you all need to get laid...
LOL. The thought of sex scares me lately. I have no idea waht that means. And I am being totally serious.
No kidding! Scares the crap out of me!
(((((BobbiJo))))) I think it was a good response, too. I wasn't thrilled with the original plan. You are driving through a lot of cornfields to get to know him, not have dinner with your cousin, no matter how enjoyable that might be.
(wouldn't it be refreshing if the gay guy had a name like Mike)
Hell no.....I don't think that would be refreshing at all...
you all are depressing me with this bomb anniversary talk...
hell, this is surviving....you all need to get laid...
LOL. The thought of sex scares me lately. I have no idea waht that means. And I am being totally serious.
No kidding! Scares the crap out of me!
I am glad to know I am not alone. The thought of it has never scared me before but lately it does. No clue wth that means. Good question for my IC I guess. LOL.
