Had a mediation hearing this week and I tried very hard to offer all I could so the D would be final in 2 weeks. She refused all offers and so now it could be another month or so.
It's more then a little dissapointing it won't be done by the end of the month.
That's where my attitude has gone. Wow. Even with her sleeping over that evening and having a really fun time. I'm ready to be done.
dbs, you are taking this atcion from a well thought out experienced position - categorically no shame in that whatsoever - you gave it your best shot and now you know what you have to do, for you.
You should be proud of yourself and any lady that gets to know you better in the future is getting a solid guy.
good deal all round in my book
lalxx
Choose Life Me: 45 Him: 44 S:11 D:8 Met in 1992 Married in 1995 Bomb drop September 30th 2009 Divorce final April 16th 2011 exH Marries OW June 17th 2011
Well she is now making comments about me moving on.
Unless I saw her make some 180's I'll be royaly po'd if it does not happen.
Crazy, but the only chance I see of us making it work is her being D for a few years and being lonely enough to make some changes. I may be long gone by then.
I told her this...to which she agreed and moaned. ?????
