Help!! STBXW is planning to move w/ DDs in Aug!

[TulsaTime]

By doing. Actions, not words.

[TooLateForMe]

No advice? I'm going to dd14s bd party and could use some encouragement.

[TooLateForMe]

The party was great, though DD14 (yeesh) had some drama. W and I were good throughout. And lots of 180s on my end. I was social, engaged, helpful and a sane person. I had to hear a bit about OM and the special day they're planning for tomorrow (gag). No heavy conversation, just pleasant and I felt like I was doing it right for the first time. Too bad it took so long to get to this place...

[TooLateForMe]

TLFM,

I would think long and hard about sending that. Like maybe a decade...

Not sending it. I yap too much and need to do.

[TooLateForMe]

Have you read anything here or the DB/DR books?

DR, but it's been a while. Need to get back on that horse.

[TooLateForMe]

Sorry to be so blunt...a 21 yr old, really? what a cliche! How is toying with the emotions of a young, impressionable girl going to help you get your W back?

Also, quit funding her affair. She's only telling you just enough of what you want to hear to keep your money coming in while she bangs OM.

Ok, again, sorry to be so blunt, but really...

I don't regret the R w/ S (21yo). We both came out of it better than we went in and I have a valuable friend.

I will quit funding her. I will pay for stuff for the kids, but that's all.

Thanks.