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4luv #1954219 03/08/10 09:14 PM
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Ladies... (((Luvless, flowmom, S2, Kimmie Lee & 4Luv)))

Thank you... Luv! I will not be a stranger!!!

Thank you... flow! I am sooo at peace and loving me again!!!

Thank you Sandi... I wish we could have met, maybe oneday!

Thank you Kimmie.... I got the hook up... "unbelievable"
I'm soooooooooooooo happy!

Thank you 4Luv... I will stick around... got some more places to go.... but I will be back here real soon... I promise!

I have missed you all, been searching for me and found myself not far from home. I am in a GREAT place right now.... Her name is Charley! I will fill you in later.

W finally able to let go. I am happy about this. I will be filing next week aroud the 15th. Looking forward to discovering the new and better life awaiting just around the corner....

Thanks again guys! Talk to ya soon...


Me 43 / W 40
T 29 / M 15
S-18
11/4/09-ILYBINILWY
11/10/09-Separated
12/1/09-W admitted EA
12/5/09-W admitted PA
12/24/09 W say "I love you"


"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"
patpat #1954240 03/08/10 09:34 PM
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(((patpat)))

Now, that's what I'm talkin' about....!

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Hi Pat Pat,

So great to hear from you! I am glad you have found so much peace. Now don't forget, you are still taking all us DB ladies on the CA trip! Bring your new friend!


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CityGirl #1959942 03/16/10 10:43 PM
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Hey Guys & Gals....

Update:

Filed today... all fees paid ! Wooooooooo Hoooooooooo!

Divorce final in 8 days....


Me 43 / W 40
T 29 / M 15
S-18
11/4/09-ILYBINILWY
11/10/09-Separated
12/1/09-W admitted EA
12/5/09-W admitted PA
12/24/09 W say "I love you"


"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"
patpat #1959945 03/16/10 10:48 PM
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(((Pat)))

so happy to see you aren't leaving us forever and that you have found yourself in a good place after all you've been through.

hugs my dear friend

Luv


M44 H41
M20 T23
3 older teens
Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy"
EA Nov 09 w/coworker
Another PA in Mar 10
I Filed Apr 10
D final Dec 10
luvless #1959946 03/16/10 10:50 PM
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(((patpat))) hope this brings some closure...


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp
.: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
luvless #1959961 03/16/10 11:06 PM
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(((LUV)))

I absolutely Luv you! I have been keeping up with your sitch. I can only tell you to follow your heart.

Coach told me long ago that I needed to rise above my fear. I have done so. You need to do the same. They told me that emotionally W was already gone.... I had a hard time with that and eventually got it. However, do what works.

Do what works. I had to piece together the things I was told to find my own bit of piece and understanding. I was able to do so. I found that once I was OK with M being over, I was free to think, act, love and talk like the old me again. I felt great. W responded to this and it put me in the drivers seat. I choose to drive straight into the D.

W actually asked me to marry her today...lol

Thought about it but... nahhhhhh!

W and OM not doing good. Me... GREAT!

I will pray for you Luv.... but me personally....

I think you should file!

Talk to ya soon!


Me 43 / W 40
T 29 / M 15
S-18
11/4/09-ILYBINILWY
11/10/09-Separated
12/1/09-W admitted EA
12/5/09-W admitted PA
12/24/09 W say "I love you"


"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"
flowmom #1959968 03/16/10 11:09 PM
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Hey flow....

closure..... hell no!

W and I seem to better friends than anything right now. We are both in a different place. OM left her. But they are tryin' to patch things up I guess. Not my worry. Had lunch with W the other day. Laughed a ton. We were our old selfs for a spell.

But I have moved on. No closure... just new beginnings!

Thanks flow!


Me 43 / W 40
T 29 / M 15
S-18
11/4/09-ILYBINILWY
11/10/09-Separated
12/1/09-W admitted EA
12/5/09-W admitted PA
12/24/09 W say "I love you"


"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"
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Pat (awww) you're so damn sweet...

I so need your prayers...thank you!

I'm on the edge of filing...so scared and sad..but I think it's the right thing to do frown

oh BTW - you are supposed to bring the DB'ers to Cali remember? wink

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M44 H41
M20 T23
3 older teens
Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy"
EA Nov 09 w/coworker
Another PA in Mar 10
I Filed Apr 10
D final Dec 10
luvless #1959996 03/16/10 11:22 PM
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(((Luv)))

I have got so much to tell you guys!

Haven't forgot about the Cali trip.... still looking forward to that if and when.....

I understand being on the edge... it truely is an unsure and scary place. I will and have prayed for you nightly and will continue to do so.

I will be thinking about you Luv!

Talk to you soon!


Me 43 / W 40
T 29 / M 15
S-18
11/4/09-ILYBINILWY
11/10/09-Separated
12/1/09-W admitted EA
12/5/09-W admitted PA
12/24/09 W say "I love you"


"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"
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