So my goal is to not say anything to W unless it has to do with the kids and just act like everything is fine and great. Be positive.
GAL. I am trying to do that now.
Try not to worry incessantly about things.
Don't ask for or depend on W for anything.
Read the books that have been suggested to me.
Work on myself, work on myself, work on myself.
Try and plan things each day to occupy myself with.
Reread all the great posts to me by everyone.
I am putting all of this into place.
Please don't give up on me.
I am working on these things.
I am also excercising each night and spending great time with my kids.
Kevin
I for one am glad to see this and am going to HOLD YOU to this.
Time to walk the walk Kevin. You remind me of the story of the man in the flood who was waiting for God to rescue him... He has already sent you a boat, canoe, a helicopter. What else are you waiting for????
I am walking the walk. You all are right. I have been handed a boat and a line. I am taking hold of it. I don't want to drown. So here I go.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
Doing the wave for you here. You are capable of great things. I believe in you.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
Actually, I will defend Kevin here - he did go 24 hours at least once, maybe more than once a few weeks ago when his PMA was stronger, but like many of us, he had a backslide. I remember congratulating him on it, as his posts had some real action oriented plans, and no pining or whining.
