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T- It's been a long time, but you've been in my thoughts and prayers. \:\) I hope the rest of your darling's recovery time goes smoother than it has been.

It's interesting to be back here, reading all the stories, seeing how many sitchs are like mine was... \:\( i think i'm a little to pessimistic to be posting to anyone just yet, but i'll get there. God works in mysterious ways, i'm just going to go where he leads me!

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take care \:\) ann


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Hey T,

Just stopping by to say hello! How was your weekend?


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guess not much need to stop by now that you are in the alt uni!


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Originally Posted By: FitChik
Hey T,

Just stopping by to say hello! How was your weekend?


thanks 4 dropping by FC. My w/e was ok. I got to spend some time with my parents on Sunday. They seem to be doing well in their new place which they have now been in for almost 4 months.

I was hoping to spend part of the w/e with my darling but that didn't materialize.

Well, it did finally materialize today. She stopped by to see me after her physical therapy session this afternoon. It had been at least a couple of weeks since we saw each other. It was wonderful getting to hold her \:\)



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Originally Posted By: S.T. _I Made It!
guess not much need to stop by now that you are in the alt uni!


idk ....i am still not sold on the alt univ. \:\)


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Hey T! Hope you get to spend some time with your darling this weekend... \:\)


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Originally Posted By: BobbiJo
Hey T! Hope you get to spend some time with your darling this weekend... \:\)


thanks for that wish BBJ.

I spent some time with her today and accompanied her to her phys. therapy appt for her shoulder. she was able to do a little bit today b4 the pain got to be too much.

i feel rather good right now as I just rec'd a very high compliment from her via TM. it said, "i love u and thanks for being so relaxed with me. no tone"

the "no tone" was particularly complimentary. as she has told me that has been her chief complaint/issue with me that pushes her away ...my tone of voice when speaking with her. \:\) \:\) \:\)

Have a great w/e.


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hmmmmmm.... you know, the tone of voice is something that is hard to change, along with trying to inform others. My sister is one. She is always speaking in a way that sounds like yelling. She does this with her kids too.


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that was a great text from your DW though!


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H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
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