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Carp is livin....things are moving along...but slowly.

Personally I am doing ok
My kids....so so
My M....about done

I have a temp custody date tomorrow morning....initiated by me.
WW still lives in the spare room....she does her "thing" and I do what's best for me and the kids.

To quote PDT....WW has become "St Mom" once she read the "list" on the temp custody papers.

Questions or comments....fire away.

I've been really wrapped up in me and the kids lately so I apologize for my absense.


H 34
W 31
M 11yrs
D 11
D 9

6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage
6-11-08 I found out about OM

7-16thru7-18 she tried didnt work!

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Hiya 54! I'm sorry things aren't going better for you. Your wife sounds very stubborn.

Have you been keeping a journal of things throughout?

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Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Hiya 54! I'm sorry things aren't going better for you. Your wife sounds very stubborn.

Have you been keeping a journal of things throughout?

Puppy


You know it bro!! I thought it would be worthless while doing it....boy was I wrong!! My attorney was appalled when she read it!!

I have not changed how I interact with WW.
We even had Xmas dinner at our house for HER famiy.
I still put out her coffee cup everyday....


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Attaboy. So long as you do it because THAT'S WHO YOU ARE, and not to please her or get some reaction out of her (and from knowing you, I know this is true), this is great.

You sound good!

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Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Attaboy. So long as you do it because THAT'S WHO YOU ARE, and not to please her or get some reaction out of her (and from knowing you, I know this is true), this is great.

You sound good!

Puppy


Thx again!
Every action I take....I start with this statement in my head....how does this affect me and my kids.
I have been keeping up with your sitch. I hope all works out well for ya!
Mom asks about ya.
I will send you some "reading material" that the legal system recieved from my L.


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6-11-08 I found out about OM

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Please do! And say "hey" to Mom . . .

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Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Please do! And say "hey" to Mom . . .


Done and will do later!


H 34
W 31
M 11yrs
D 11
D 9

6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage
6-11-08 I found out about OM

7-16thru7-18 she tried didnt work!

8-17 home (just for kids until the end??)

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