I was a little surprised, I didn't realize it was time. I don't know how to attach threads, sorry.
Just a little catch up, I'm trying my best to detach, since my H married OW but for some reason I haven't given up completely.
I am doing better than I was but I'm still trying to figure out how to stop thinking about him all the time. I have started a cross stitch project so that is helping.
I still haven't heard from the job yet maybe that is still in the works.
so many people are losing their jobs that it is taking longer to hear from a prospective employer and it is getting harder to find a job. if you don't get this one, i am sure there is one out there just for you.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
i still think about stbx all the time but are able not to do it for long stretches of times nor wallow in what/who/when anymore, force your mind to do the thought-stopping technique, in time your mind will catch up and will shorten up the amount of time you spend thinking of him, it works
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
I'm working on that thought-stopping technique, it's not working that well right now, but I'm trying. Everything has just happened so quickly for me! A year ago we were together.
I do hope this job comes thru for me, it is exactly what I love to do & it's a small company in this town of course they have other offices in other places but it's small here so I really like that part. But again, it's in God's hands & I'm trying to think positive.
nlt: i answered one of your questions on the detaching thread.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Thank you, I did read it & I appreciate your advice!! I do get angry sometimes but I also am trying my best to give it to God. He is in control & all I can do is pray!
Keep your chin up NLT a job will come. Hugs and prayers!
Gman Me 40 W 30 kids B 11 B 10 D 8 Been here off and on since 06. PA Confirmed Dec 08.. With God, anything is possible. Do or do not there is no try. Sometimes you have to roll the hard six...
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Hi nlt, Just wanted to say hi and that I am thinking of you. It took me ages to not think of H first thing in the morning. I am slowely getting there, but I can tell you that it is very hard.
You seem to have done better lately.(((HUGS))) xxx
