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buster80 #1551861 08/09/08 06:44 AM
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come on Duke, don't leave me hanging like that ! even though I know what you're thinking. a)no wonder she left me for an ex, she's done it before or b)she's immature and i should've known this would happen or c) both a & b


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buster80 #1551864 08/09/08 06:55 AM
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well she's going to a wedding of a friend today, with OM of course. maybe when she hears the pastor say the magic words "do you promise to honor, cherish, etc." something will go off in her head.....probably not \:\)


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buster80 #1551869 08/09/08 07:11 AM
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i just realised something positive.... I've been physically separated for 10 weeks and it flew by quick ! the whole time it felt like a millenia. \:\) thanks for carrying me through everyone \:\)


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buster80 #1551953 08/09/08 12:44 PM
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Originally Posted By: buster80
Puppy elaborate please


Buster,

I just meant that I was unaware of this, and I think it is playing a large part in her "moral code" in how she's dealing with you now.

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How she's dealing with me now ? She's being very nice lately. Smiling asking me how I am, told me to drive safe to the phillies game. And get this - remember she was telling me how I OWE her x number of dollars each month ? I gave her SOME of it yesterday, and she asked if that was it for the month. I was floored. She didn't expect more. What gives


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buster80 #1551958 08/09/08 12:51 PM
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can I influence the moral code ?


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buster80 #1551979 08/09/08 01:12 PM
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I meant that she feels justified in her wayward behavior, because she always did it with YOU, even when she was with other men.

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Originally Posted By: buster80
can I influence the moral code ?


No. You can only live yours.

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I knew the answer to that. Had to ask anyway. Lord, please help my wife see the light.


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buster80 #1552245 08/09/08 08:30 PM
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soooooo.....


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