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Re: When life just hits you Truelove #1459122 05/27/08 08:01 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791 Cinderellaman OP Member
OP Cinderellaman Member Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791	Well, A friend of mine got divorced several years ago, her H married the ow. Now he is divorcing the ow and has another ow ! UNBELIEVABLE !!!! A year ago, he asked my friend for forgiveness and for her to take him back, she didn't, she has a very nice boyfriend. Boy oh boy, life is just full of surprises ! Love Cinders xxx "In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus http://miesblogspot.blogspot.com/

Re: When life just hits you Cinderellaman #1459128 05/27/08 08:05 PM
Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 3,978 A angelica Member
angelica Member A Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 3,978	And what my dear do you deduce from that?? Perhaps the husband is n't the world' s most stable human being. Perhaps the OW isn't quite as wonderful year in year out . . Who knows?? Glad your friend is fine, and sorry for the others - the husband and the two OW, still chasing rainbows . . . One day if everyone is very lucky they might grow up a bit. Hugs A

Re: When life just hits you angelica #1459136 05/27/08 08:09 PM
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OP Cinderellaman Member Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791	They might....but we don't know do we...it could take an entire lifetime... $;\)$ My friend is fine, she said to me today, that she feels I am in a much better place than I was a few months ago, weird how things change so much ! Does make me wonder, if we are to take our H's back at some point, would it be temporary? it seems like a huge risk to take. Oh well, glad I'm finding my way through all of this ! Love Cinders xxx "In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus http://miesblogspot.blogspot.com/

Re: When life just hits you Cinderellaman #1459158 05/27/08 08:19 PM
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angelica Member A Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 3,978	Cinders, don't know the stats on people who remarry - I suspect that they are good, but that is only a guess. In your firend's case, I hope she feels she is better off without him. If you were to take your h back, I would get his out of diapers first, emotionally speaking! I think you are in a good place,fwiw Must get on with stuff. Hugs A

Re: When life just hits you Cinderellaman #1459160 05/27/08 08:20 PM
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angelica Member A Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 3,978	Cinders, don't know the stats on people who remarry each other - I suspect that they are good, but that is only a guess. In your firend's case, I hope she feels she is better off without him. If you were to take your h back, I would get his out of diapers first, emotionally speaking! I think you are in a good place,fwiw Must get on with stuff. Hugs A

Re: When life just hits you angelica #1459178 05/27/08 08:30 PM
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OP Cinderellaman Member Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791	Yep, I know what you mean about the diapers !! $;\)$ Have a great evening, I'm off to bed now, take care, xxx Pool is being fixed tomorrow, I found the leak ! $\:\)$ Love Cinders xxx "In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus http://miesblogspot.blogspot.com/

Re: When life just hits you angelica #1459336 05/27/08 09:37 PM
Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow B brandnewday Member
brandnewday Member B Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow	My Dad is on his 4th Marriage. He told me that leaving my Mother was his biggest mistake. He is still trying to find happiness and he just turned 60 last week. There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.

Re: When life just hits you brandnewday #1459342 05/27/08 09:38 PM
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angelica Member A Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 3,978	And how many hundred years did it take him to work that one out??

Re: When life just hits you angelica #1459351 05/27/08 09:42 PM
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brandnewday Member B Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow	Not many.... But my Mother wouldn't take him back. There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.

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