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Well, headed to the lawyers to sign the papers.


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Drew,

I feel like you already know what I am going to say. All the first aid stuff, all the stuff that sounds like fluff.

Instead of that, all the stuff you already know.

Take care of yourself today. You.

You have contact info if you need it.



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Drew,

Do something for you tonight if this is THE DAY.

I had to get out the night mine was final. Made arrangements for my son, then just spent the night out, alone, but in the company of other people.

Took a couple days off work, just to clear my head and get my mental hands around the idea of being a divorced guy.

Could have had a friend join me, but I really needed the night to myself. But that was just me.

Do what you need to do. Just be kind to yourself.

And know this...

Life does indeed go on, every bit as well as it did before. Maybe even better in some ways.


Blessings,

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Guys,

Thanks for the support. I'm fine. Really. There's a certain weight off my shoulders because, hey, I don't have to worry about arguing or settling on the final arrangements. It's done and fairly straightforward. Pretty much got everything I asked for and then some.

And things are the same at home. We're all watching the tourney. She's more stressed out than I am. She has to go to court on Monday.

I don't.


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Drew,

I hope your still doing fine. If not you know where I am.

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Grace,

I was just going to ask you how you were!!!

I'm fine. Boys and I had a nice Easter. I'm home with S6 who's fighting a cold and a slight fever. Nothing serious.

Guess I won't be able to show up in court today. \:\)


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I'm hanging in there.

Sorry S6 is sick. Is it spring break for them? It is heae so I'll be doing stuff with D's. Mostly stuff around the house, but I'm sure we'll have lots of fun in there.

Since not going to court made you smile...I hope you're having a decent if not good day.

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Next week is spring break for us.

Actually, I'm getting a touch of the bug. Probably a good thing I stayed home today too.

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Well, just got a message from my lawyer. It's official. I'm divorced.

Hmmm, I don't feel any different.


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So the hairs didn't immediately sprout and grow out your ears?

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