New lease on life

[stumped1245]

I apologize to all for being scarce the last few days. Not much has changed with my sitch and I'm frankly tired of dealing with it.

Sounds to me like you're getting to the place I got to and that was when I started living my life without H and I quit focusing on the sitch so much. That's when my life got better and I became happier. I think everyone here eventually has to get to that point, because the more you think about it, the more it rules you.

However, the more you begin to live your life "as-if" - and you are truly feeling "as-if", the happier you become and sometimes, all of a sudden, they begin to realize what they may be losing. If they don't, then they are not worth the time spent to keep them. This may sound harsh, but we all have to remember, WE'RE WORTH SOMETHING TOO! :-)

[Pamar]

Jarhead,

It will all hit your w at once, as it did mine.....and I bet OP makes himself scarce at that point.

At that point, you can make the choice, move on or continue to work at it.

[Ohio_Mark]

Message to our wives:

"...tick-tock, tick-tock..."

[SueS]

Message to our wives:

"...tick-tock, tick-tock..."

And our husband's.......

[Dr LOve]

Sounds to me like you're getting to the place I got to and that was when I started living my life without H and I quit focusing on the sitch so much. That's when my life got better and I became happier. I think everyone here eventually has to get to that point, because the more you think about it, the more it rules you.

However, the more you begin to live your life "as-if" - and you are truly feeling "as-if", the happier you become and sometimes, all of a sudden, they begin to realize what they may be losing. If they don't, then they are not worth the time spent to keep them. This may sound harsh, but we all have to remember, WE'RE WORTH SOMETHING TOO! :-)

Hey Stumped,

I am there, I have pushed galing to the limit..... last Saturday the only thing that made the differance from me have had a good time and having a great time was the fact that I am still married....It really could have been a great time (in a hot tub)
But the very last possible minute reality kicked in.... and I went home to my "roomate".....ButI do have a number.....

H

[Michael Mc C]

Hey Jarhead, anything new going on? Hopefully you're still enjoying your freedoms and things are getting easier for you and your D's.

[Michael Mc C]

Figured I'd try again... Anything new going on Jar? Been over a month. Hope things are going well for YOU.

[nutfarmer]

Hi Jar,

Haven't seen you around for about a month. I hope that means you are in a better place.

Nut

[nutfarmer]

Anybody heard from Jarhead? I hope all is well.

Nut

[LL44]

I think I have his email. Let me go stalk him....