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#1257058 11/08/07 02:40 AM
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Well, I stopped to drop off something for S6 at CW's house today. After I dropped the stuff off, she handed me an envelope, in front of S16, saying it was something for me to read. I looked at the label and saw that it was from her attorney. I simply looked at it and said, "okay" I went out to my truck and found that it was divorce papers......


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I'm sorry, MC. She did tell you before that she was filing though, didn't she?

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I'm so sorry...




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
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Grrr. How are you dealing?


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She told me she say an attorney. I am dealing a lot better than I expected. I was in a tizzy at first, but now am at peace.


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It's not over until the papers are signed. Keep on DBing. Main thing is do it for yourself. I'm glad you are finding peace within yourself.




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Well, Frank_D will be happy to know that I now have it in me to walk away. Just this afternoon I asked the great and powerful Oz (Theo) what will it take to make it possible to just walk away from her and really detach.........now I know.

I will survive.......

"Whenever I'm about to do something, I think "would an idiot do that?" and if they would, I do not do that thing."
"There's nothing on my horizon except everything. Everything is on my horizon."
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MC,
I think I'm on the verge of getting to this point. Do you have an attorney yourself?

I've heard over an over again not to give up hope until it is actaully finalized. (actually from my lawyer this afternoon).


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Yes, you will more than survive. You will go on and have a better life. A life where you can control your choices.

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Thanks Sara.....after it is all final, I am planning a cross country DB chick tour.


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