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K, sorry your hurting. Just know I am thinking about you. I have a full day tomorrow, but if I get time I will try and give you a call to see how you are. Just don't forget to plug your phone back in! ;\)


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Hey KTF.

Just checkin in and sending you a ((cyber-hug..))

How was your day today??


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Mtn,

I'm doing pretty good, thanks for checking on me.

I just posted to mrsH's thread a few minutes ago with the latest.

I'm not sure what I should do H wants me to pick d up from his apt -- the one that he shares with Ow this weekend! I told him I can't, but it's as if he didn't hear me.

What do I do now?

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say it louder so he can hear you


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virginia,

Sometimes I still feel like this is all a bad dream.

Like I will wake up and my life will be back to the way it was.

H and I sharing our life together.

How did it all go so wrong? 2 years and counting... It's as if none of this is real... H's affair, all the lies, Ow, H signing the divorce papers..

Where did his love go? What is going on in his head to make all these poor choices?

I don't know what is going to take to make me feel better about all of this. Maybe when I can quit loving him.

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Lissie,

Do you think I am being a b*tch b/c I won't help him out?

It's his weekend, he chose to live 45 min away, when does he help me out, like last Sunday when I asked him to keep d7 for an extra hour so i could stay at my friend's party... he refused.

He doesn't ask he just tells me.

What if he refuses to bring d home, then she will be the one to suffer. She wants to come home early for her birthday party. I wonder if I don't pick her up will he make her stay at the apt until he wants to bring her home?

It's so hard to know what the right thing to do is.

I want to stand my ground , be strong, but not if d7 will be the one to suffer.

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K, did you leave a message?


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mrs,

Yeah, I did. It said " I am just getting back to you about the weekend." " I am sorry you feel like I don't help you out, however I don't see it that way." " I too have to do a lot of driving this weekend and am going to be very busy." " If worse comes to worse I will agree to meet you half way, let me know."

As I am posting, my cell phone was ringing... it was H leaving me a message. Can't wait to hear his response. Sigh......

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Do you think I am being a b*tch b/c I won't help him out?


Not at all dear heart.

Meeting him half way would be great.

I know you you feel dear heart, it is heart breaking.

I hope your D has a wonderful birthday.

HUGS


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Lissie,

Thanks \:\)

I really am not trying to make things difficult, but I think he has a lot of nerve to even expect me to drive 45 min. to his apt with Ow . Like I am supposed to drop everything to help him out.
When I get absolutely nothing in return but disrespect.

I hope you have a good day !

Hugs,
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