It's time for the annual ish post, I guess?

Things are good. My MLC is a better man than I married. I remember reading about that possibility, and I held on to that hope during.the very bad times. And, while it might be like winning the lottery, turns out it's also true.

He has grown so much, and so have I. We are slowly, so slowly,.piecing this marriage back together. What's different is that i believe.it... I believe that we will keep going on this same direction and that we will continue to have increasing emotional and physical intimacy and relational security.

I followed the plan.

I did my work.

It was so hard.

And now I have to work on forgiving myself.for tolerating the abuse. One step at a time.

Being an LBS is tender. Being an LBS in repair is even more so.

May your your journeys be gentle.