I remember when my W got her own cell phone plan too. Yes, it was gut punch.
I agree with Steve. Social media usually drags one around.
Those pictures are like you said, a snapshot, a moment in time, the outer facade. Realize your W is running. To her everything is shinny and new. There is a bubbling cauldron of emotions and confusion within her, and she is going to keep herself busy so to not have to dig into that.
Do be scarce when she is picking up those items. Less interaction will likely be better.
