Any thoughts on doing a R temperature check when BD 1 year anniversary gets here ...Is it a mistake to start a conversation about R status at least?
Do not initiate R talks until you are firmly in piecing. You are not in piecing. If she initiates, you STFU and listen and validate her emotional states.
So you have been at this for a year. Hopefully you have been making progressive changes to your behavior and the way you interact with women. This should carry over to your W noticing. How would you rate yourself on attractiveness last year? This year?
