physical appearance is NOT my kryptonite… My kryptonite is someone who actually does spend time with me.
I could kick him to the curb right this moment for sure. But why? No need. Still getting to know each other.
Time will tell. That’s all I know. I don’t need to tell him to take a walk yet.
I can’t disagree with any of this. I might add your Kryptonite is also someone you pays you attention. But I also agree there is no reason to stop now. I just wish you could be not so focused on it all. Really, truly honestly be like, “started dating someone, way too early to tell, I see some red flags but who knows. I’ll know in a month or two.” That’s where I’d be. Heck that’s where I’ve been several times in the second half of last year. But that’s just not you.
I see many write “it’s a marathon not a sprint”. Problem is you want to run the sprints. It’s no sin but it tends to complicate things. It’s okay not to know where things are headed, especially in the first few months.
