Or maybe neither of them were feeling it since they’ve known each other in a neighbor capacity so this is a new role to explore. Maybe they were both feeling it and too shy to move. Who knows? Mach, good for you for putting yourself out there. Everyone has to move at the pace they feel good about and not everyone wants to rush to the lightning round. Sounds like you did fine and enjoyed yourself and if so and you are interested, see her again. Odds are, assuming she’s a mature and rational grown woman, she’ll give you plenty of signals when she is ready. You should just be enjoying the experience at this time and not feeling pressure for anything more. Your timeline is your timeline so don’t compare it to anyone else’s.