I fully understand what Dawns talking about. I lived the same including the lies. Yet I also have to remember this is the woman I chose. That’s on me. No one forced me to marry her (though she did push and push and push) but I did that. I failed to see who she really was. I should have chose better. It’s easier to blame the other person and lord knows there’s plenty of blame to fall on them but lest we forget we chose them, we overlooked or explained away the faults we knew were there. When making the most important choice of our lives it’s important to choose wisely. Easier to do in hindsight and additional years of wisdom.
