Happy Valentine's Day to all the valiant lovers here!

It's not a day I ever felt melancholy about after my divorce, because I realized in retrospect how hit and miss my ex was with celebrating it, and how that should have been my first clue that all was not as it seemed with him. I can buy my own dang candy anyway!

I even forgot completely about my ex's birthday this month. Like that song he's now just "someone that I used to know".

Celebrate all the other loving relationships you have in your life, with friends and family.