Just wanted to address the issue of s5 and OM and the whole notion of ready made family….you are trying to control something you cant….she will do what she feels she needs to do. Switch it up- you and this girl get serious, you want her to meet S5, do you really want to report to you exW on how and when?!
I know it stings, honestly truly understand, H always takes OW when he goes somewhere with kids, they live together, she is always there. There is literally nothing i can do, i always hope that they have a good time and return happy home. When i FaceTime them i often see pictures of them 4 on the walls, so very much a notion of a family. But im their parent and thats all that matters, what i concentrate on is my relationship with kids.
