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Thank you all. I appreciate all of your advice and input. It truly helps. I had a hard time logging in every time I tried. Sorry for the delay.

Lighthouse. We are not in contact so it is hard to be that.
If and when I get the chance I will.

Question: He had a function last weekend. We used to have it. I saw it on someone’s
Social media that I am connected with on social media. The thing is the usual footprints were missing that would post about the event.

I am confused. I don’t think I am that important that he would stand in the middle of the room and say do not post. It is a huge event.

Two of the people were huge participants in where we are now. They pushed his foot on the brakes and kept it there.

One has zero footprint since I left. He is never around this person who is trash and one of the arguments we had that started this journey.

I warned him about that person and he tore into me and the monster was released. We were never the same. NEVER.

This person post all the time and zero with him. They used to be together all the time.

The one person that posted I saw only two or three people I remember.

Did he put out a call to hide their posts from me? Or is something going on with him where he is trying to hold onto a world that is gone or going?

The other person did not post anything AND THIS PERSON POST EVERYTHING! EVERY EVENT!

There is more, this is the jist without giving finite details.


What are your thoughts? I would appreciate it’s thank you in advance.

I am focusing on myself. This struck me as odd this week.

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Samoy,

You need to stop over analyzing everything. You are going to drive yourself crazy. Who knows why people are not posting. Maybe they are just tired of dealing with his drama or he could have set up his account so that you cannot see the postings. Whatever the reason...I wouldn't focus on that.

You have been posting on this thread since June 5, 2023, concerning your h's reaching out to you. They do that during the crisis because they want to ensure that you are still there. From all of your postings on this thread, I do not see him in the final stages of his crisis. He is still out there.

You have not posted to your own thread since around November 2022. I suggest that you provide an update on that thread or create a new one and link your old thread to it. I have bumped your old thread up for you. Having a current thread allows others to follow your progress and offer advice and/or support to you as well as a way for you to refer back to what you posted and where if you should need to revisit a posting.

Now, keep the focus on you and I look forward to posting on your thread in the very near future.

BTW, I am locking this thread in order to clean it up and make it into an informational thread only.

Last edited by job; 09/02/24 02:16 PM. Reason: This thread is locked for revisions and made into an informational thread only

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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