X... I feel your pain in this. LSS told my boys (not biologically his but his none-the-less since they were 1 and 2...now 8 and 9) that he never loved them and hoped he never had to see them again.
Pretty heavy fortow little guys. I told them he was sick and that medicine wouldnt help and that they had a whole bunch of other people that loved them and then we made a big list and added everyone's pictures to it. IT's a nice reminder onthe wall for them.
Your daughters are very lucky to have a man in their life so they know what to strive for. They are also lucky (?) to know what they do not want to be and the kind of parent they never want to be to their own children.
WOW is right. No sane woman, no sane woman, NO SANE WOMAN would say that to her child. I thought that my H was the only looney out there but obviously, he has a sister somewhere. I will commiserate with you a bit and say this … Our counselor has been trying to reach H at all of his numbers at the request of our 8 year old son because S wants to go to a counseling session with his Dad. H has not responded to any of her calls. Just simply ignoring this request from our son through our counselor. My eyes have tears in them as I write.
So I say all of that to say this. None of them are the people that we knew or know. Yes, it is true. We can see their faces but they have been invaded by the BODYSNATCHERS who removed their souls and left us with people with glazed over “deer in headlights” looks on their faces. They lie with straight faces, they steal from their families without a conscious or second though. They resent us, the ones who try to hold the fort down while they are in LA LA LAND.
She is not well, I know that she is your wife but she is loca in her cabeza and unfortunately, she may or may not come out of it. I am so sorry that your child has to see this. Just continue to love your girls, they will make it through. Most of all, take good care of you.
