This ride has just gotten crazier since post D, hasn't it?
I sure didn't want to hear this! I'm on the verge of my D and hoping for some saner times. Oh and I have to weigh in on this vacation thing. The Rat and your X are both looney tunes! I'm guessing she's trying to get validation from you on the "sanctity" of her R with your X. I'm guessing your X wants a closer look at NewGuy. Either way, they are nuts!
Good luck with your student teaching. Knock em dead!
Spitfire
Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest. Mark Twain
I will call you later. I have been out of my mind busy with finals looming for grad school. I swear, I have done five papers in five weeks. (two were 12 pages YIKES!)
We need to catch up. These half days with the kids are killing me. Busy busy busy.
Computer guy was here yesterday since my laptop had a virus. Sorry I had to cut you off.
I thought this was interesting and certifiable at the same time..
Quote: The Rat and your X are both looney tunes! I'm guessing she's trying to get validation from you on the "sanctity" of her R with your X. I'm guessing your X wants a closer look at NewGuy. Either way, they are nuts!
Nothing surprises me anymore. I have no idea why XH would want to spend a week with me and New Guy. No matter how you slice it, he is absolutely nuts! I thought your opinion was interesting, though. I never thought of it that way.
The post D crap is easier because all the paperwork, etc., is over. I find the X's have a harder time dealing with the finality than we do. I have been alone since the day he left and two years post I am fine. He never thought I would go through with the Big D so it was a major reality check to him I am sure.
He got the prize, though. A nasty snaggletoothed rat with bad breath.
Quote: Ignore his behavior. You`re leaving him in the dust & he can`t stand it. The best revenge you have is living a good life, a better life than with him. And, you are. Keep going forward.
you betcha..The further I move on down the road the more bewildered he looks holding up a worn out old stop sigh. (sorry sucker, you can take that stop sign and put it where the sun don't shine!)
My dad said the same thing as to the "swapping" reference. That is so nasty.
Anyway, I didn't even acknowledge the comment. Nor will I.
He does want me to try to "convince" the kids to go on vacation with them.
My S12 said no way. It is not my job to convince my kids of anything as far as I am concerned. My S12 saw my XH spit in my face last August so need I say more.
XH has a long way to go before the kids are going to want to spend time alone with him and away from me. I think it would be great if the kids went but no way will I convince them. And, to tell you the truth, I don't think it's such a great idea.
Rat and XH are obviously out of their minds, still, so why would I want them to be alone with my kids on an island somewhere? Freaks me out just thinking about it.
All I know is that my kids are doing great. I want to make sure they have an awesome xmas and receive lots of love. They sure deserve it.
As always, Ellie, your thoughts make me think..hmmm..
you tend to hit the nail on the head time and time again..
Thank you for visiting my thread. I do keep up with yours although I havenot been posting much lately. Interesting about ow and xh wanting to vacation together. Sad though that they still cling to each other when they clearly are not happy together. They both need so much help. It is too bad that people dont realize how short life is and to stop wasting it by not getting the right help.
You are so much better off now and you do sound so good. Your children sound so smart. I know because they have such a great mom.
Keep up the great work in school. It is only up for you from here.
We are the veterans, all right..And I think we are both doing pretty da@@n good if I do say so myself!!
Thanks for the visit. You will get through all this b.s. Look how far you have come. Let him spin, Mermaid, and don't let him get you caught in the whirlwind. Take it from a pro.
Have my paper to write.Fifth paper in four weeks. YIKES! This one turns out to be 14 pages. About media and it's influence on kids. Actually, it was very interesting to write. I learned a thing or two about what I need to do with this computer before kids start surfing the web.
Last Thursday XH leaves me a ten minute long message over his concern for the kids and asking me for help with getting them to go on a trip with him..then he suggest I GO WITH NEW GUY.
SICK..
but he was kiss a## nice it was creepy on the message..
Okay..
Today he emails me a bullet item list telling me what I am not doing right with the kids..
starting each sentence with "it's not okay that you blah blah blah..
It was OUTRAGEOUS..
I was going to take my D out of school an hour early today to get her haircut..Mind you the ONLY day of school she has missed was due to her FATHER taking her out.
Then, XH has them last night and decides to let THEM SLEEP LATE..so..my S calls me at 9 to say they weren't in school yet and that dad was taking them in late. Well, by the time they got to school it would have been almost 11 and I thought at that point, what's the point? D had lunch and recess then an hour of school and I take her out again?? Give me a break.
So, I tell my S to have daddy do what he wanted..but I said it was okay if they just didn't go in..It really wasn't okay but it wasn't like XH asked permission to let them sleep in. It was wrong he did that.
So, he emails me saying how it was wrong I HAD THEM FAKE NOT GOING TO SCHOOl.
with a few other things that were so outrageous I couldn't believe it. Saying to me be careful since the kids will be become whatever I decide and I was a spendthrift and a liar, etc.
MY BLOOD IS BOILING..I will gladly post the email but I am too tired to go cut and paste...how pathetic is that?
He verbally abuses his girlfriend in front of my kids
Lies
Cheats
Drinks
Bullies
Intimidates
Lies again
And he had the NERVE to judge me?
I was going to go on and on and do a retaliatory email but I did the 24 hour rule..When I get pissed at him I MAKE MYSELF wait 24 hours before responding..
Well..I almost made it..but I didn't send him the original email so I guess I a being good..so in a way I doing the 24 hour thing.
I emailed him one sentence..I wanted to do the EXACT OPPOSITE of what he thought I would do..which would be rant and rave and get in a fight..
I just emailed him saying.."looks like someone didn't take his happy pill today..oh well.."
Why can't he just leave me alone?
What does he want?
I have no idea..
Oh, btw..so far I have received all A's in my grad school class so I guess all my anxiety has found a good home!
A- on my HUMOGO research paper..and I was actually pissed I didn't get an A..I think I have a problem..
I am sooo mad at the jerk..He just got back from Florida and he is already back to his assanine ways. I thought he would at least be happy for a few days.
Maybe he picks on me on Thursdays since I stay at New GUys on Weds when he has the kids..
It is so predictable.
Oh, did I tell you he is yet ANOTHER fight with the Rat? She went with him on the trip and they always fight when they get back. He has the kids this weekend so things should be interesting ..poor kids.
Oh, another thing..Son was at his dad's last night and text messaged new guy..it was trivial but I thought it was pretty funny that he did that since it's very unusual for S to text New Guy..Guess NEw Guy has really made a good impression which makes me happy..Although I am playing supercool with S about it..
okay..going to get my Voodoo doll out now..Funny how it looks so much like the Alien..hmmm..
