Every once in a while these jokers off in la la land really kick up some off the wall thoughts, don't they.
"Hey, lets run off on some caribbean vacation like one great big happy family....." What are they using? Let's see if we can send what ever it is, over to Saddam so we can have some peace by Christmas too... Hey, it's just as plausible, right?
I think I need a drink now....
BTW.... Thanks! Rub it in, nice balmy weather.... we had near 70 degree temperatures a few days ago, and now we have -1 with ice and snow.... Brrrrr.... pass the brandy! Watch out guys, it's coming your way, and it isn't at all nice!
MTN, just keep on holding on to your future, and don't let the crazy xh and rat throw you off course.
Take care of you, give the kids a hug!
God Bless
Love,
Laughing
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you.........
And I thought my H was crazy for saying he and I could still take the kids on vacation together, although we'd have separate rooms. That's NOTHING compared to your XH! LOL!!!
It has been nice in Jersey the last few days. I hear the bad weather is on the way.
Sorry but this made me snort into my coffee. I agree that they are out of their tiny frigging minds. Which part of planet Zog in the Witless Galaxy are they currently inhabiting???
Just out of interest, what did you kids think of this?
Hi Angelica The kids thought it was GREAT! That was the hard part. Both kids came home and thought, wow, wouldn't it be great if the Rat and mommy were friends and Dad and New Guy could go boogie boarding together. That is why I was so pissed last night. I looked like the bad guy to these kids.
Then I thought, wow, this could be my opportunity to get her back for all the crap she pulled. Have XH and the Rat pay for our trip and I could booby trap her room and stuff. You know, cellophane the toilet seat, put rubber bands around the sink faucet to squirt her in the face, you know stuff like that..ha ha.
Or, I could just sit on the beach with New Guy and watch them fight.. Sick Sick satisfaction but more entertaining than any talk show I watch. that's for sure!
I have been very good about OW to the point where the kids think I like her. That is the problem. I have accepted it but still would like to use her face to scrub the lizards tank.
As for XH, he is a sick ticket. He will try ANYTHING to get a reaction from me. If it means leaving a long message about NOTHING, then telling me we should all go on vacation together and then, the clincher, telling me NOT TO CALL HIM BACK.
He is out of his freakin mind.
Oh, did I tell you that he had the kids overnight on Wednesday night so I slept at New Guys? So, when the kids popped in the house to get stuff before school on Thursday morning I wasn't here. Kids were unphazed thinking I went to the gym or something. XH new damn well where I was. He called the home phone ten minutes after dropping the kids off.
Also, took my D to the city with the Rat to see the Grinch. D came home with a Hard Rock Cafe shirt for me that DADDY picked out. He knows I collect them.
Another thing, two weeks ago he text messaged me "good night" when he had the kids.. He knew I was with New Guy.
Now all this may not sound like a big deal but I hadn't spoken a WORD to him since August 13th. The day I got a restraining order on him for pulling a very stupid stunt. (past posts)
It's the holiday season. He will be sniffing around. But what pisses me off is when he acts all innocent and suggests these stupid family gatherings and I nix them. He cheated on me with this Rodent . Why the hell would I want to eat dinner at a restaurant with her while she chews on chicken bones and licks her fingers?
Okay, I have to calm down. I was pissed last night. I had a long talk with my S12..He hates the Rat but thought it was her trying to be nice. I had to tell my S that I accepted that dad and I were divorcec, but I would not spend time with a woman like that.
I didn't respond to XH's message. Nor will I. Geez, two years ago I would have jumped at any opportunity to respond. Now I am like, he is still out of his freakin mind and it feel SOO good not to care anymore. As long as he is paying me the dough to stay in the house while I finish my master's, I am fine.
How r u doing these days? I have read some of your posts and new you were in the state somewhere. Yeah, it's been great with the balmy weather. My roses are still blooming which is so cool.
As for vacation with XH. Well, I did that four months post bomb and it was horrible. It was weird and I was a basket case the whole time. I couldn't relax and was paranoid he was on the phone with the Rat the whole time..(which he was) I hate to say it, but most of my friends who went on vacation post separation had a horrible time. Just my thought although I know it would be great for you to have the help with the kids and get out of dodge for a while.
Yeah, these guys are nuts so you are gettin it. I feel as though the more distance we keep during this MLC time the better. I know that may not give the opportunity to "validate" and listen, but there are certain things I don't agree with with DBing. My philosophy is this. If someone is treating you poorly keep your distance. When they start treating you with respect, then take the time to validate, listen, etc. The minute I shut crazy XH out, he went nuts. He was all over the map. The more attention I paid to him post bomb, the cockier he got. Just my thoughts but you do sound like you are one strong cookie..
Shots, baby. That sounds like a plan. But I am such a lightweight these days that if I even look at a drink stronger than my standby Coors Light, I get wasted.
Joisey, yeah..don't u just love the great wrap we have coming from the land of high hairs? I live in jeans and a tee shirt, pony tail and I feel that so many of my email buddies may think I wear fringe cowboy boots and rhinestone jackets! Lol.
These guys are crazy, aren't they?
I am so glad I can entertain you all with my post D stories. It really doesn't end when you sign the papers. It think it just starts a whole new cycle again. However, I am in the drivers' seat now. It's so weird..
We are the veteran's, aren't we? This ride has just gotten crazier since post D, hasn't it? I know with your sitch it has been absolutely crazy and I do hope that things go your way in the next month. You deserve it!
Too bad we can't send all of these freaks to a boot camp for cheaters. I heard there was a website for this. I am not kidding. I would love to find it and read the posts.
Have to run. Doing my SIXTH paper in a month. UGH! But I do love class. My teacher is great and for the first time in my life I feel like me. Not a wife, mom, daughter, sibling, just MTN with no title. It's so nice!
Hugs to you, girlfriend. That shot of brandy doesn't sound too bad, either.
Yes, xh has become worse post D, as a matter of fact, he's become crazier the longer it's been!
Naw, not a boot camp.... I'd rather see them strapped to a chair in a hot, dark room, facing a huge movie screen so they can watch movies of themselves and all of the things they've done and said (to their family) over and over again, until they get it, or be able to tell the truth from their fantasy.
Now, that's what I call justice.
Have a great day! Kids are home from school today, we've been snowed/iced in.
Take care, God Bless
Love,
Laughing
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you.........
Quote: Naw, not a boot camp.... I'd rather see them strapped to a chair in a hot, dark room, facing a huge movie screen so they can watch movies of themselves and all of the things they've done and said (to their family) over and over again, until they get it, or be able to tell the truth from their fantasy.
I just can`t believe how your XH is behaving. I mean, I can, but do you think he`s still trying to mess with your head? YUP!
Ignore his behavior. You`re leaving him in the dust & he can`t stand it. The best revenge you have is living a good life, a better life than with him. And, you are. Keep going forward.
That sounds like a plan. But I am such a lightweight these days that if I even look at a drink stronger than my standby Coors Light, I get wasted.
