After W beginning to figure out that D isn't going to just be I live somewhere else and still help with kids 24x7, take care of the house and cars, plan the vacations and do the taxes, and continue to supply essentially unlimited supplies of cash; and figuring out the kids are going to actually be severely impacted; and realizing being a single parent with a full time job might be a bit harder than the country club life she's had for the last 10 years:
W: "I think we should talk about reconciling." Me: "So does this mean you want to try to meet my needs and work on the marriage?" W: "No."
built4speed My Saga "How others deal with the gifts you've given is not your decision, but theirs." - Richard Bach
W- I need to seperate from you and the OM for a while and be on my own. M- Ok.
Next day she is having coffee with him and tells me that he is a friend and she can go to coffee with friends. So I asked if she'd like to go sometime and she says not right now.
M-35 going on 15 D-8 S- 3 yrs ex-CL(w)- 30
D over one year
I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be. Douglas Adams "Just Be"
