It must get old reading my threads when all I can say is that life couldn't be better and I couldn't be happier... but that's just where I am at.
Just spent a lovely week with C. We went out of town and took Blondie and her BF with us. Had a spectacular time. We also ran into exH and GF at a concert while he was here. C met the exHs exGF (ya'll keeping up here with all the GFs) the night before. exH felt a tad bit uncomfortable standing with his arms crossed while C, GF and I chatted it up. Meanwhile I was smiling inside, 17yr age difference between the two of them and the younger one had the more mature manners. Go figure.
The more time we spend together, the closer we become. The man shares his thoughts and emotions openly with me. He's priceless, says that he's losing his machoness by becoming sappy with me and between ya'll and me, I am loving every minute of it. In my two Rs I've never had a man so expressive before of his feelings, not only vocalizing them but also backing it all up with actions. For however long he's in my life, I'm enjoying it... day by day. I said I wanted a man who knew how to make me feel like a woman and boy do I ever have that... and then some.
Those 3 little words have been exchanged... the days leading up were quite cute as I think he was testing my feelings before he finally said it... first it was I love so many things about you... then it was I am falling for you and then... those 3 little words. It's just all so surreal...
BTW... going back out to Vegas the 29th of July through the 1st of August, so if anyone is heading out there at that time and wants to head over the Mandalay for martini's just let me know we'll be happy to meet up with you.
It must get old reading my threads when all I can say is that life couldn't be better and I couldn't be happier... but that's just where I am at
No, you just relish it. You've earnt it girl
Those 3 little words have been exchanged... the days leading up were quite cute as I think he was testing my feelings before he finally said it... first it was I love so many things about you... then it was I am falling for you and then... those 3 little words. It's just all so surreal...
It's been forever since I surfed these boards or checked in on anyone... sadly it seems like the old gals have done the same... but I was thrilled to see your name and to hear how well you're doing! You all got me through some of my darkest times and I'm so very grateful for that! So, cheers to you. I'm so glad you're doing awesome and that you've made your own happiness!
Sounding happy as usual, just checking in on you!!!
When are you coming to Florida?
Love, Lisa
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
Oh my two names from the past... how the heck are you two doing??
Trying to Smile... whatever have you been up to? Wondered where you went off to... send me an email... sexysadietx@yahoo.com
Lisa... Lisa.. when am I coming to FL... well the relocation to FL has definitely been put on hold... it seems that I may be relocating back to California or somewhere north a bit, Utah or Colorado has been in the discussions, even Santa Fe... but I'll know more in the next year or so. No rush.
But as for a trip there... I would think that would be in order very soon. I've been talking to BigAl about a DB gathering in Key West. I think that would be a fun place for us all to meet up.
So... just thinking out loud here... C and I have been talking a bit about going to up to Chicagoland this fall. i had mentioned to him about a DB get together for a hockey game up there and now suddenly I am meeting his family??? OK I can handle this, LOL...
So if you are game for going to a Blackhawks game this fall let me know... we'd do it on a weekend. He has something to do up there in September so i'll check the NHL schedules for that time period first.
So freaking hot here and of course just when I'd like to go somewhere and cool off I go back to Vegas next week... crap from the frying pan straight into the fire!! Sheesh, why couldn't he live in Montana?
BTW... I thought I had posted this but for those on MySpace if you go look at my Top whatever it is... you'll see C (the squirrel), daughter no 1, stepdaughter (the bride) and exH exW No 1!! LOL.. now how many people can say they have their ex's ex on their friends list, let alone on the top row... LOL!! Stay tuned, we may be working together quite soon!!
BTW... I thought I had posted this but for those on MySpace if you go look at my Top whatever it is... you'll see C (the squirrel), daughter no 1, stepdaughter (the bride) and exH exW No 1!! LOL.. now how many people can say they have their ex's ex on their friends list, let alone on the top row... LOL!! Stay tuned, we may be working together quite soon!!
Lisa, I think they broke the mould when they made you. Your life is starting to sound soap like. But in a good way IYKWIM
Well if things could not get any wierder... everyone on the count of three join me in singing....
all my exes live in Texas and are on MySpace... Yup... now we have exH and Wanker!! But Wanker has deleted me as a friend (tissue please)... I wonder if it had anything to do with any of the bulletins where he was mentioned, but that would mean he knows what a wanker is... oops!! Well the cat's out of the bag now, he's been on there since July 1 with an updated profile and get this according to the profile he doesn't smoke or drink!! Hmmm... care to take bets on that? Cause it also mentions he doesn't want kids... funny so does exHs profile. Guess they forgot they were sperm donors at some point in their lives.
Oh too funny... just too funny!! Peyton Place revisited!! I'm having a drink... anyone care to join?
Well Blondie did a little research... she has her unfinished issues with wanker and was going to send him off an email. I did sit her down and told her to go ahead and write it but to have no expectations if she chose to send it but that I would stand behind her in her decision. What do you say to her? I can understand her reason but she then flipflops about in her logic, totally understandable. He let her down and never said goodbye. Never a word... not even when she ran into him. The man has no McNuggets. So C decided to play comment war with her on MySpace in an attempt to perhaps build a bond between them and take off the focus off wanker. I've been in stitches watching the two of them battle out the comments on one another. Me, just the innocent bystander and watching my daughter get some much needed TLC from a "good" man role model.
She found that wanker hadn't deleted himself of my friend's list but that somehow he had actually opened up a NEW account when he was unable to access the old one. I've since gone ahead and deleted him.
Here's the funny thing... his one friend on there besides some chick with a webcam porn site (HA HA HA)... gave him a rash of you know what calling him on the no smoking and no drinking.. something to the effect he did both ALOT!! Oh and his profile title... let's just say the man still has his morbid death obsession..
Of course Dave's interestes are: Darts, Hunting, Fishing, Playing Guitar and Women (Exsqueeze me, isn't he engaged?) and he still claims he is single. I wonder if Road Kill knows of his special interests and that apparently according to his MySpace he's not in a relationship... oh the temptation to turn into a little birdie... not to worry... I won't but damn that temptation
Anyway... life still good... Off to Vegas in a week and sooo looking forward to it. We've decided that I will travel out there in the beginning of the month for a couple of days and then he will come and stay for a week in the middle of the month since he can leave his business for longer than I.
Went up to Austin Ave last night to get out of the house. Of course I got the 3rd degree by everyone who met him the last time I was there and they did finally get me to fess up that yes he was a Chippendale dancer, albeit semi-retired (now I get the dances, just kidding!!)... claimed it was hard to lie about a body like that. Oh yes... that body will be mine in a week thank you!! But assured everyone that I was happy and the GF who left her H a month or so back even mentioned that she noticed how "attached" C seemed to appear to me. Gave me the warm and fuzzies... but I already know how much I mean to him... yet it's all still so surreal.
Hugs and kisses to everyone... hope you have a wonderful weekend!! Oh tomorrow would have been my 17th wedding anniversary... round of drinks on the exH!! Today is his daughter no 1's 23rd bday and she got married two days ago... sad that we weren't able to make it but meeting up with exW this week to see pictures from the big event and to talk about the possibility of us working together... yeah get the smelling salts out!!
I think I should start the Dallas Sequel!! Who needs JR? I got all the wankers I need, surrounded by them!!
But assured everyone that I was happy and the GF who left her H a month or so back even mentioned that she noticed how "attached" C seemed to appear to me. Gave me the warm and fuzzies... but I already know how much I mean to him... yet it's all still so surreal.