Oh gosh, I never even answered this, DnJ. HOW RUDE OF ME! I will soon, I did read it back then and then because of the worst baseboard heaters that basically spit out a tiny little breath of heat that dissipated within an instant in what we call cold and what you call balmy, I took the plunge to have the chimney fixed and put in a fireplace insert to get me through the winter without figuring out what really to do with the heating in general. I will have to revisit that issue in August. I'm always hoping I'll be divorced and not have to worry about my expenses being subpoened every ten minutes, but no matter what I do or don't do or try or don't try, I can't seem to get this guy to stop filing, motioning, threatening, etc., even though I was forced to settle the house with an insane overpayment. This is a long story that I will have to fill in later but overall it seems that this guy does not ever want to be done, he wants to keep finding new reasons to drag me back into court, and the current judge is so dreadful he has found an enabler. As ever, I will promise to respond/update and then have no time for another 6 months to actually do it.
Last edited by Gerda; 05/19/2403:46 AM.
I believe I will see the bounty of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord with courage. Be stouthearted, and wait for the Lord.
I’m glad you got the chimney/fireplace working. That will toss out some nice heat and ambience.
I am sorry about the ongoing shenanigans from your SSTBXH (still soon to be ex husband). Come to think of it, that preceding extra “S” could stand for quite a lot of descriptive monikers for dear old H.
My XW was/is a vanisher, while your spouse just keeps stirring the pot. He is one of the more stubborn ones for sure. (Stubborn being one of the more charitable adjectives. lol)
Take care, and I hope you find time to look at the heat before the balmy-like frostiness hits.
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
