WAW Walks Away a Second Time

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A lot of times you may not fully understand other's advice and perspective but everyone is here to help and support you.

I can fully understand everybody's perspective and although they differ, the common theme is to look out for yourself, for me and I understand how important this is either way.

The best way to save yourself is to detach, to become more attractive, work on your R skills, GAL. But it is not guarantee, right? There is no silver bullet. You can stop that panic, you are working at it, sometimes you're right on the cusp of breaking through but everything still looks the same.

I understand there is no guarantee. Panic is the worst. Hypnotherapy last night was good and dumbed it down a lot. It's starting to creep back today as I can feel the feelings in my body starting to bubble up, but so far it's manageable.

You should have hope. Always have hope. Hope for the best outcome and know in your heart that no matter how dire the situation, you will survive and be better for having gone through this.

Hope for the best outcome, I agree. But I was referring to hope that we would get one more chance to address our relationship, but that wouldn't be detaching, right?

I'm guessing you haven't seen or heard from her in a while?

No, nada. Just over 3 weeks.