I live in a no-fault state. I'm also not positive I want to definitely pursue the D route instead of S, since there are some pretty significant financial benefits to me of staying legally married (for now) and I don't think I could buy him out of the house. I need to get in touch with a lawyer and pull some financial documents later today to get a sense for what this all will look like.
He says she knows everything. And doesn't like it. Though I'm sure his version of what has been happening is different from mine.
