GAL could still rock YOUR world. This morning I did a 1-hour session of Vinyasa Yoga. In contrast to my first session-- where 1/3rd of my time was spent thinking about her and 1/3rd of my time was, "Ow!"--I was focused and had fun. I smiled during. I smiled after. I had a few mini-conversations! Seems others prefer smiling/happy me, too. The world is beginning to feel full of possibilities again.
There are no guarantees, Oz. But dwelling, dwelling, dwelling on worst case scenarios that are beyond your control doesn't seem the path to happiness. Giving my partner space is bringing out the best in her. I'm not sure if it'll be good enough, but it's better than it was before.
Are we in holding pattern. She hasn’t filed or talked about anything since BD
how do I know that this is the best method for getting your wife back.
And still the last one about rocking her world. I know I need to do it for me. I know it. I hear you guys I promise. I just need to know how much and how it will affect her 1.5 months in. Cause basically all I’ve done is remove pressure
So check it out. Wedding is tonight. I’m finally getting it
1 she is gonna do what she wants to do. I can’t change it 2 they are doing a Jurassic park exhibit in a park here in town tonight and I’m taking S8 and we are gonna have fun regardless of W
3 I invited her to come along. She said “I don’t know” but seemed a bit taken aback
4 I didn’t ask permission I just said I’m taking S to exhibit.
Ozman, I wrecked my car the first time I tried to GAL after BD imagining what she was doing at a picnic. Stay safe. Keep focusing on your kid. You love each other and there’s no outcome where he’s leaving you!
