I know a LBS dad that didnt fight for partial custody but he wpuld have easily gotten it cause his wife worked 2 jobs. He wanted her back. He still wants her back, and you should hear the stuff she says abput him.
Shes the type that wants to live beypnd her means amd she likes to go out and date. So she leaves her kid with tons of baby sitters. He coudnt afford to stay on the same area and pay her child support, so he moved far away.
He still makes a huge effort to see the kids though and he is a great dad.
You are once again back tracking. You know what you need to do. You can make excuses until the cow moos, but please stop. GO OUT, GET OUT. Your kids know you love them.
You can't become your best version until you let go. You questions show a lot of excuses to try and stay around.
Your W is D you. Show her the best Tate she will be walking away from.
Also, IMO you are still trying to make your W happy, please don't take what she offers you. Fight back and force her to negotiate. Show her the man she will be leaving. A fighter, a person that don't just get rolled over. And walk away from thatvlawyer that want even fight for you. Look up the number one divorce lawyer in San Antonio. She is good, and she will tell you, she can get you 50/50.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
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I am fighting for 50/50...to fit out schedules, that will be 1st, 3rd, 5th weekends school till school, monday and wednesday stayovers year round plus 1 month summer.
What I am told I cannot get is primary possessive ...my kids to have my address as tgeir permanent.
M 17 years 3 kids EA start 2010 ILYBNILWY 1/2014 PA 1/2016 Bomb drop 2/2016 Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016 Living as roommates, EA continues
I am fighting for 50/50...to fit out schedules, that will be 1st, 3rd, 5th weekends school till school, monday and wednesday stayovers year round plus 1 month summer.
What I am told I cannot get is primary possessive ...my kids to have my address as tgeir permanent.
Ok, so you get to see your kids 50% of the time, there is no reason why you won't get joint, and really, the only difference is the physical address. So, yeah, I wouldn't argue over that. My ex an di have joint custody, I have 70% and he has 30% (something like that) and my address is my daughter's address. however, decision making in her regard is done jointly.
So, yeah, I wouldn't fight the address thing unless you guys are going to live far apart.
And why does she get the house again? Anyhow, if she does, your kids will attend the same school district as they were.
We will have joint managerial custody, 50/50 time with kids, but she will have possessive conservatorship...ie their address is hers. Reason this will become a problem is that she will likely want to move to another city to be closer to her family. Unless I prove that this will be devastating to my kids lives, the court will grant it. If I am possessive, then she can move but would have to also gain possessive to take the kids with her.
M 17 years 3 kids EA start 2010 ILYBNILWY 1/2014 PA 1/2016 Bomb drop 2/2016 Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016 Living as roommates, EA continues
Okay, so tonight is another evening I can do my own thing...should I be going out every night I can? It seems riugh on my kids, and its painful for me...I just want to be with my kids.
I know I can take them, nut my wife will try to join us...
M 17 years 3 kids EA start 2010 ILYBNILWY 1/2014 PA 1/2016 Bomb drop 2/2016 Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016 Living as roommates, EA continues
