i dont disagree i just need to settle a number of financial matters (current mortgage is one which neither can afford alone, accumulated debts are substantial - equating to a loss in selling the home - not to mention a lack of upfront initiation costs are unavailable, I'm also settling my dads estate - although the inheritance will allow the financial freedoms i need to act on your suggestion)
BD Oct 2016 Me 47, W 43 together 25 years S 25, D 22
Life tends to keep moving forward as we try to line up all our ducks in a row. I'm a master of this. Been doing it 7 years (7 long, miserable, excruciatingly painful, and humiliating years).
Take in a roommate, rent it out, get a part time job, etc. There is always a work around.
Please start a new thread and link this one to it.
Thanks!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
