When that day comes, I will bring along the popcorn and the snacks and we'll watch , 'When Karma strikes'.
If it doesn't, and tpt is really a fairy who farts roses and poops rainbow coloured poop, then kid's father is one hellava lucky man. And I hope that I will also be one hellava lucky woman.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
I'm sure you will be a lucky woman, you're a fantastic catch!
I agree with V, when I think of my S, I feel that same rush of love I got when he was handed to me, so tiny and precious. And that unbelievable gush of real true unconditional love.
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16
I'm so awfully sorry this is happening and it is happened the way it did.
Your ex is a chicken who took the chicken way out and did not even tell his daughter to prepare her. He has to live with all the stuff he's done. TPT has to also. Like cherry said , she's going to have to look in the mirro every day and realize just encase they are married doesn't make their R right. She married another woman's husband.
You can hold your head up high, and any new R you might have you can take pride in. You'll make the right choices for you and your kid.
I hope your kid finds some peace with this. I know without a doubt you will get her through
I second ginger, hold your head straight up. Any foundations of future r's will be based on honesty for you. And that's the reality for xh and tpt, a r built on lies, secrecy and deceit. It honestly is a receipt for disaster. It eventually would be a case that she will begin to be suspicious of him, knowing what he did will eat away at them.
You set a fine example of a woman and mother to your daughter.
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16
Vanilla, Cherry and Ginger, Thanks for your support.
I still get PTSD and sometimes, like kid, I wonder if this is all a very bad dream.
But I am climbing out of the pit.
In a very perverse way, narc contractor (narc con) has been keeping my mind off the irreversible. Maybe there is a purpose for him in my life after all.
He still gives me headaches and heart attacks every other day. But the flat is slowly coming together, and is looking quite all right. I just have to close 1 eye. And make sure I hound narc con for whatever can be remedied.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
I'm going to make a confession, sometimes I like to watch romantic movies. Please don't tell anyone. But, you need to watch "Under the Tuscan Sun." It's not a fantastic movie, but you'll enjoy it and you'll particularly enjoy the contractors.
I haven't been watching a lot of chick flicks but I will definitely check out your recommendation. I remember seeing this movie and giving it a miss because D didnt have any place in my life then.
I promise that your professed fondness for chick flicks doesn't change the macho tool-wielding impression that I have of you.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
