It's actually a relief to know that she's being dishonest about being at her friends. It was the other night she went out with work friends and the whole thing from me finding out she wasn't at her mums. To finding out that the story she came up with was a lie
It's clear she has cheated despite her the other day pleading and crying she hasn't
I don't know what to do now, I think the LRT will come quite naturally now.
It is possible that she is having an affair. She could also be lying because she is afraid of you getting angry. At this point, we just don't know. What we do know is that you can control only yourself, not her. Focus on being the best Cop1 and Dad that only a fool would leave.
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Cop1, I'm sorry for what you're dealing with... you got the right idea. and now you have the proof of what Cadet was saying before... 'nothing you hear, half you see'
...and it's only going to get worse before it gets better. There are a thousand things that come with a WW, if you do your homework, you'll see most of them for what they really are, before they even hit you.
There are a thousand things that come with a WW, if you do your homework, you'll see most of them for what they really are, before they even hit you.
The #1 thing that comes with these people is the selfishness. They don't care about a bloody thing other than their own wants in the moment. If you let your guard down, they'll get away with murder!
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.
The problem is now she will refuse to talk about that night, saying I don't beleive anything she says. So now she is just saying "I'll say I was with whoever you want be to say and I went wherever you want to be"
There is no way she would admit to it as her public image with family and friends would be tarnished, yet I'm the one who is facing the wrath for not trusting her etc
The problem is now she will refuse to talk about that night, saying I don't beleive anything she says. So now she is just saying "I'll say I was with whoever you want be to say and I went wherever you want to be"
There is no way she would admit to it as her public image with family and friends would be tarnished, yet I'm the one who is facing the wrath for not trusting her etc
SO would a 180 be to say NOTHING and expect NOTHING?
