No worries Mut, do what you need! We love you, there will be someone around here to offer you love and support and listening ear and lots of lofs of inappropriate comments and copious mounts of wine!!! JellyXXX
Damn Mu, I'm sorry to hear about this turn of events.
Let it shatter you. Cry your guts out. Yell. Scream. Do whatever you need to.
And then wait for the relief. It will come. You've been living in hell already my friend. Life does get better. It does. It may not for a while but you're a strong man and can walk one day at a time. One hour at a time, one minute, one breath. You know the drill.
There will be peace in your life my friend. There will be peace.
As someone who has lived through the same conversation, I can tell you with pure honesty - there will be joy in your life again. There will be laughter. And there will be love. If you do it right, and I've watched you for a long time and know you will, your world will expand to places previously not thought possible. You cannot imagine that now. You'll think I'm lying. It will seem impossible.
But it is not.
Let the waves crash into you for now. Let them beat you up. You've been beating yourself up for months now at her behest. Now it's time to stay down for a bit. Lay low and let yourself heal. Be still. Be quiet. Be compassionate with yourself. Take care of yourself. Be your own best friend and ally. Love yourself in the ways your W wouldn't.
Then when the time is right you can rebuild. Men have done it before you and you will not be the last. You will build your life in the exact way you desire. The thought is daunting now, but it will be an adventure when the time is right.
Sending you immense love and support my brother. I'm wrapping you up in my arms. I'm sorry this has happened to you Mu. So sorry. You don't deserve this.
As many hugs as you need.
PP
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