Unfortunately, I have no idea whether it was filed or not. However, today was interesting anyway. Like I said, when I got in the office I went over the documents, tweeked them since I originally wrote them more that three months ago. I emailed them to her and all she had to do was print them, sign them, and file them. I immediately got an email back saying why did I not send this form and that form. That she knew I was going to make it difficult on her, and that is sooooo typical me. I then even sent her the docs she would need in the future. Again she emailed back complaining. She was so adamant that I was doubting myself. So I went back, reviewed them again (everything just how I always file them) and then called the clerk of courts and verified I had everything. Sent an email back that everything was ok, we did not need to create a fight about this and I wanted to move on as much as she does. She did not email back. Its weird that out of the blue she wants this so bad, but whatever its good for me too. What else is weird is she is so rude about it, but ok it will be over soon.
Well I am not the only one she is taking her moods out on. S16 text me today and asked for a ride to his gf's place. Then he called me and started talking about how mean WW is being to him. His comment was please don't say anything to mom about this or she will take it out on me. I said don't worry about it I have no intention of telling her anything we talk about, so his secret is safe with me.
On the GALing front, now down to 163. I have not seen that weight since high school. I need new jeans, I also need to get down 8 more pounds before I am done. Tomorrow I am going jogging with friend, weigh ins for tournament at 6:00 and then meeting jogging buddy for dinner. Should be an good day. Sunday is tournament and of course I will probably will not be moving to well after that.
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16
You cannot control the behavior of other people. They don't always make sense, especially in times like this, so stop trying to make sense of it.
Do what's right.
Do what's honorable.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
Tim, sorry to hear but also glad. Sounds like the boys are going to be siding with you more and more. Wouldn't you think your WW would be "happy" if she's with a new guy? Because, you know - you're so terrible her life must have improved vastly.
I guess I should be grateful I have as little contact as I do with the WW. However, it sounds like it's barely getting to you - where a couple of months ago it would have been very different.
Not sure how fast the D process is in your state, in CA it's pretty fast. I should be halfway through at this point. Assuming of course the W or the W's L ever pick the next court date. I've assumed since her week and a half off with the OM went so well, she'd have been pushing to speed things up. The dumping of my stuff at the front doorstep would tend to reinforce that. We'll see.
I'm madly studying away right now - I've got to double down and get my license. I've been terrible. It's still hard for me to concentrate, but I've got to break past that. GAL is helping everybody else - I just have more to do to get there. Wish I had a jogging buddy!
Have a great weekend!
Me: 58 Her: 59 Kids: 0 Dog: 1 ILYBINILWY: 9/15 D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed) Verified OM: 1/11/16 Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)
So it was a great day and night. First went and did a little retail therapy. Then jogging buddy and I ran three miles. After that we went to her house and talked a few hours. Then I picked up S13 and we went and weighed in. I am down to 162 and without a belt my jeans are falling off.
I picked up jogging buddy and went shopping again. She picked out new jeans in my size (down to a 32 waste again!) and I bought them. Then we went to dinner and a few drinks.
Sorry, know I am going to get... you should not be seeing jogging buddy or it is too soon but we are taking it slow. Not interjecting a 3rd party into my sitch because I am done with my sitch. At this time the best WW will ever be is good coparents... and I cannot even cross my fingers on that.
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16
Well I wrestled today. OMG am I sore. I have bruises on my forehead and even my hair hurts! First match was a kids who could not be more than 20 and had muscles on his muscles. I wrestled ok for my age and ability but lost 5-1. Second my I got a forfeit yay me! Next match was the first kids friend. Holy F he kicked my butt! He literally was so fast he faked a shot, I down blocked and he spun in a 360 and reshot before I could react lol. He was a monster and ended tech falling me in the 3rd period. But with 8 guys in my bracket I was the only one alive to see Regan in office or Bush or probably even Clinton.
The win for me was running buddy showed up to watch! Just sorry I could not do better for her.
Goals:
1. Wrestle MAWAs (check) 2. Run a 5k (that comes in May)
Additional Goals
1. Wrestle in Keystone Games (they have an old man's category!!) 2. Run a Spartan Race Sprint (that is in July) 3. Get down into the 150's even 158 would be great.
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16
Thanks V, this is really becoming a lifestyle and I have this board and the constant suggestions to GAL to thank for it. Now I want to constantly push myself more. Jogging buddy is even warning me to be careful I don't overtrain. However, I am enjoying pushing myself and my body is keeping up... In fact I feel great, minus the soreness after the tournament and the blow to my ego, but hey there is always next year, and I will be ten times the guy I was walking in this year.
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16
