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#2661655 03/11/16 09:59 AM
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Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
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Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home


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This morning, XF called to ask about kid swap time (been the same on a Saturday since she left). She sounded happy and talkative, so I took advantage of a good mood. When she got here, I was shirtless, showing off the new uphill wink . House smelled good and all the windows opened. It's a beautiful day here today! Anyway, when she got here with S4 I had the nerf guns in hand and attacked them both haha. I felt like Rambo and we all had a good time with that for a bit. She lingered, I honestly think checking out the bait I was putting out there haha. Oh well, may as well show her what she's missing out on right?


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You sneaky devil, you! laugh

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Haha I got a shower this morning, much easier before S4 arrives! Looked in the mirror and thought fk it haha this divorce diet has me back in the best shape of my life! May as well show it off!


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bahaha!! I did something very similar today, I was just getting ready to post about it. Good for you!


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Well played Uphill! And I think the same thing about my new found shape, I'm starting to buy new, sexier clothes to show off this new bod just in case H decides to stop by!


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Uphill - love that! And, it seemed like it boosted your confidence. Great idea…..I may have to steal it myself - seems like Tim and Hope already thought of it!


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ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
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What better way to show them what they walked away from than dangle it in front of thier face?!?!? Haha I didn't go overboard with it and I don't plan on doing it every time I see her, but if it's a nice warm day you better believe I won't be bashful haha


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I like it. I've been packing on the muscle as well and eating like a champ.

I've been dark on Facebook but when I start posting pics again, W will have to eat her heart out. We aren't friends on FB, but I'm friends with all her friends and I know they will show her.

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If only I actually saw H to do that...
Doing some retail therapy tomorrow to get an outfit for match day.

Glad you're feeling so confident! I"m sure you look amazing :-p


M:26 H:32 T:8yrs
ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16
D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16
Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW
I moved to different state: 06/16
Currently: Trying to move forward
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