What does wifeing her and not using her for sex mean? Someone told me that he wifed her and isn't using her for sex. Can someone explain. I'm clueless... thanks
Me 34 H 33 Married 2006 S5 D2 BD Jan 2015 EA/PA He moved out 2/2/2015 Came back 5/2015 Filed divorce papers 8/21/2015
All I said was how do you explain a man cheating on his wife of 12 yrs for a heroin addict whore. She replied amd said he wifed her and that I was a winner not the loser who deserves better as do my kids. She's saod he's th real loser...
Me 34 H 33 Married 2006 S5 D2 BD Jan 2015 EA/PA He moved out 2/2/2015 Came back 5/2015 Filed divorce papers 8/21/2015
I see this as there is more emotion in the sex. Not possible in this phase of his A, it's the addicted phase. All As are like that in that phase. Rubbish comment. I referred to one of my WH POW as the fishwife. You can borrow that, if you want to, it's a woman with a tacky demean, low cut dresses and a loud uncouth mouth. Go on I generously offer you the description, now seems apt. Yeah, she is being wifed, fish wifed.
Bah, humbug. It's an old English phrase from the Middle Ages, when men 'try' out the maiden for marriage. There was a phrase called bundling too. I believe there are customs like this in the US in the colonial times. Bundling was also used in the couple of months after child birth.
Glad the reference resonated. It certainly helped me.
V
Last edited by Vanilla; 09/26/1509:54 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
Lol V I watched this. And he's so right. V do you think he'll ever come around. A few days ago I did something and he was like wow I wish you were like this before. Then all day I didn't text him and at night he said that he was waiting for me to text him... ughh
Me 34 H 33 Married 2006 S5 D2 BD Jan 2015 EA/PA He moved out 2/2/2015 Came back 5/2015 Filed divorce papers 8/21/2015
