Old dog seeks new trick 14

[Cadet]

I want to give them 5LL or HNHN. I think they, or similar should be mandatory for couples.

I gave out that book to 2 couples recently.

Also they both should help you figuring out YOUR needs.

As per todays discussion.

[Old Dog]

:-) Yes, I'll be dipping in to them again.

[Vanilla]

The next thing I'm pondering is ... I am the one whose name is on all the utilities, gas, leccy, water and jointly for council tax, the 'family' car and the rent.

Should I transfer all these to her? I'm gradually changing the address for all my other non-family stuff. My car, driving licence, voting reg is all at the flat.

Pros, cons?

Absolutely OD. Get those Fins sorted, be safe, this is your future and that of your boys.

Thank you for your support OD. Is there an activity you could do together but not be together? Thinking of go karting or laser quest........

V

[Old Dog]

... Is there an activity you could do together but not be together? Thinking of go karting or laser quest........

V

Ha! Yes, I could run her off the track or shoot her continuously :-)

[Vanilla]

How about jousting without armour?

Rock climbing no ropes or bungee jumping with shears.

Parachuting with scissors.

My imagination is running riot OD.

Maybe my H could join her paragliding over the middle of the Atlantic in a paper glider.

Tell you what put them up for Big Brother contestants.

V

[Old Dog]

Ho ho! All excellent suggestions :-)

[gan]

Oh how I missed V on the boards!!!

[Vanilla]

Gan

I was only gone 10 minutes.


Mooooose

V

[Old Dog]

Well I survived the day. Just to recap, it was S12 ... no S13's birthday yesterday (Saturday) and I agreed to doing some activity all together.

In the end, we did one of my ideas which was to go Scalextric racing, and then went for a meal. I told myself to keep calm, STFU, and put on a happy face for my boys.

And I did it. V signs were minimal and out of sight, mutterings, also minimal and restrained. I largely ignored ww apart from when we really did need to decide some things ... oh, and I held firm over my change of visiting week when she said she'd arranged something in a few weeks time.

I had a laugh and a good time with my boys and she was there too. Time for sleep now.

[Vanilla]

Really pleased for you OD, you put S13 birthday first above all.

Maturity personified.

Waited to hear, I can sleep.

V