Well, that didn't take long. He's hoping that you will offer him a monetary settlement w/o the lawyers being involved. I knew it was too good to be true. Didn't I just say a day or so ago that you might not want to delete the email whereby he had called off the legal proceeding?
Bea, he's going to try to "woo" you into giving him a monetary settlement that he thinks he is owed. I hope you don't do it...he has no case.
He's so predictable!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Gripes, it's not even two days and he's popped up again.
The second portion suggests a backhand compliment that your approach would have been the BETTER one. Not that he's even willing to entertain the notion to concede that for, Lord knows, it would be a tacit admission that he's in the WRONG. No sirree!
Bea, He doesn't want further contact and yet it's the game of distance/pursuer. Give the man what he wants...no more contact. But, I can assure you, when he's ready, you'll hear from him again. He can't remain silent for very long.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I wonder if he was sincere when he made the initial gesture. Sometimes, in my opinion, I think they have these moments of clarity...speak sincerely...THEN. RETREAT! RETREAT! Or, in Monty Python Speak..."Run Away! Run Away!" Back to being bastard-ly devils. That's their default now, after years of bad behavior.
I'm glad you are in a good place to handle the ups and downs.
Do you get a feeling of hope when he appears his ol' self again? I can't imagine being able to let go completely, especially when seeing glimpses of the person I loved.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
