Moving Out but moving on?

[Vanilla]

Edz, let's have a bit of a logic fun thing with this, I am sure others will chip in.

I don't know how to do tables in this and last attempt transferring a word table was very odd result.

So, why don't we set some guidelines?

Let's say we mark each GAL activity from 1 to 5
Set a target of ??.. 20 pts per week
Add 10 pts each holiday week ??

Ok so GAL points
Swimming, running, hiking, meals, sauna, alone one hour 1 pt (counts as out of house)
Add kids extra pt per child
Add spouse (if not in piecing) take off a point
tv at home nul points
TV at mates plus 1 pt

Club activity, sports, games, sauna, dance, sing, weight watchers, GAanon wassail 2 pts
Competition sport including prep 3 pts
Shopping, visiting muesem culture trip out, course with others non work 3 pts
Dancing party, full on evening with meal, cinema, dinner party 4 pts

Weekend break with chums full on 5 pts for each day

Other stuff
On line gaming with cohorts but not gambling 3 pts but deduct 1 pt for every hour over 8
Coffee with chum 1pt
This site?

That's my starter bid lets get this going like a Mexican Wave

http://youtu.be/JTazCqcD7Ls

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Vanilla

[edz]

Nope it appears HTML posting is disabled. Leave it with me

[jim0987]

this scoring could get complex but i think its a good idea. I thought i was doing ok but turns out i'm a long way short of the 20 target.

that digital photo course should be a good 3pts each week

[edz]

I'm certainly hoping, as long as the karting doesnt land me in hospital then I'll be hopping...

[jim0987]

is now a bad time to mention i got run over last time i went karting.....

I like Karting and its great your getting out to do it but make sure to try and make the most of the social aspects

[edz]

Ok, update from today (so far) as posted have some new GAL activities signed up, on the lookout for more.

This morning had the plumber around who's now got the floor back in the shower tray cemented in and the floor tiles back, he's coming back at 8am to grout them and get the door back on the ensuite, hopefully I can start friday with a glorious hot power shower...bliss..

As I mentioned, knew W was dropping S around today after his trampoling so did the housework at lunchtime not to mention sorting myself, hair, shaving, cleaning fingernails - breath etc.

W and S came round just after 3, made her a perculated coffee and she sat on the sofa for a bit while I grabbed a dining chair so she didnt have to turn around awkwardly to talk (need a second big chair or sofa when I can afford it) nothing R or heavy just on how its all going and lots of talk on the cats both being daft muppets. She seemed tired but wasnt as cold as she has been, made sure the house was nicely lit and warm and inviting so hopefully thats made a subconcious impact, W collected a couple of the picture frames I had here as she hasnt got any at the flat

(MIL/FIL scooped them all up on that first rampage when I met W on the saturday after she left. They got put "somewhere" but of course they havent prioritised finding them, fixing the shower at the flat....etc)

After about 30 minutes W went, she mentioned she may not go out tonight but may stay in as she'd need to wash her hair and get ready and doesnt know if she can be bothered. Just said well, up to you see how you feel and told her to go careful and that I'll assume she's picking S up tomorrow unless she lets me know when she wants me to drive him back round. Made sure I didnt hang around at the door or wave her off or anything, stayed upbeat and happy the entire time.

Still got some conference calls on the go so made sure S is settled and has a drink etc (in the other room at the moment) once I finish for the day we're off out to the exciting food shopping and then a quiet evening at home with dinner together.

[edz]

is now a bad time to mention i got run over last time i went karting.....

I like Karting and its great your getting out to do it but make sure to try and make the most of the social aspects

Yes I got hit by a tyre last time if I remember lol!

Well first thing will be this "license" event so thats big groups etc. From then I need to see what options there are as the last time I went without it being a deliberate group of us was probably my stag do in 2001!

[Vanilla]

So far so good

But the wassail?
Vanilla

[edz]

Well I have been apple shaped in the past so it's probably appropriate

I shall endeavour to get some good health in the schedule immanently and I trust you shall keep reminding me

S was here last night, we went out and did the food shopping and I made him hot dogs with all the trimmings with french mustard as requested. We played PS3 for a while (Sonic All Stars racing - PS3, I still got it but he took me to 5 to 4!) he went up to bed about 9 but was watching his media player until I remote shut it off and he went to sleep.

W texted me about 9 to ask was he in bed yet, texted back to say yup all tucked in. She was already back from her meal and settling in with the cat and probably heading for bed. Asked me if I was to bring S back today what sort of time would it be. Said I have a couple of bits I cant move (working from home) but I can do before 11 or after 12 the rest is flexible so we agreed on 10ish.

This morning we were expecting an early visit from the plumber who's now grouted the tiles before going off to another job (he should finish the job later today, hooray!) he was getting here for 8 so I was up for 7 then got S up to bagles and orange juice and coffee for me. Will be driving him back to W about 10 as requested.

More later..

[edz]

Taken S back to W, went in for a coffee. Light chat nothing about R, W wanted to give me a spare USB cable she had. Not having S this friday as my Dad is coming over on Sunday so picking S up early Sunday morning and taking him back Monday.

Hugged S and had a brief hug with W before leaving which was a nice suprise. Back to work now..