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Thanks for that, MCS. It is very typical of a WAW in an A. It is not just your stitch.


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Sandi, I figure it must be hard to share your experiences honestly, but It makes a huge difference for those of us to see someone come through the other side.


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Thank you both. Sandi. I wish that WAW had half your strength. And vanillin I really aprreciate your support.

On Tuesdays W works and sometimes calls in. Last night d16 has trouble breathing and I had to take him to hospital for a nebuliser. I text W and she offered to help. She called in today got a bad reception from D13 and s16. She was here 5 mins then left.

Again hard to see the women I spent my life with as a guest


On positive note me a kids watch Star Wars tonight and had a good laugh

Take care all. and thanks again for support

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I am a little confused about the kids.

You mention D16 should that be S15?

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Sorry, Need to concentrate S15 is now S 16 And I am 49. Told old for this S####

I will update profile now

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Hi all. Just a vent. A called yesterday afternoon for 10 mins and left very without the usual hugs for the kids Kids had no contact last night or this morning I know I have said it before but W was a great mum before this and now it's like she has relinquished all responsibility for the kids. It makes life easier for me but I can see the pain it's causing the kids.

O. An upbeat note myself and 4 kids watched second last star wars last night and we all had a great time

Take care all

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There are at least another 4 star wars movies to GAL at. Then there are the hobbit movies.

How delicious, sitting pretending to be in a movie theatre at home. Trust there was popcorn!

As long as you are not shutting W out and there is some interaction then the memories of mum will remain. They have a terrific dad.

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Hi Vanilla. We have watched 5 of the Star Wars so only one left. We we're thinking lethal weapon next ?

Popcorn cola and chocolate. Not such a good dad really !!!!!

W has shut herself out. She often leaves on a Saturday just as we are about to start.

Thanks again for the kind words. I wish we all lived in the
same area We would all GAL so much we wouldn't partners. LOL

I read all your posts but I can't sort my own M out so I don't have a lot of advice to offer. You and the others are always in my thoughts. Take care

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You know there are only 3 star wars movies.....

If your thinking lethal weapon next then I'm assuming you've watched Indiana Jones already


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Jim. 3 Star Wars movies ? I'll bite ? Please explain ?

Re Indiana , I feel it lacks the introspective nuances of the more socially challenging lethal weapon which not only brings Dr Kings message to life but also displays flashes of Joyce mixed with an attempt ( subtly ) to recreate a little house on the prairie family theme joined by merchant of Venice depth and sadness at the futility of mankind.

Just my thoughts but then I was always as speedy Gonzalez type guy !!!!!

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