Hurt and Confused 3

[oad]

Link to old thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2473001&page=1


well I started a fulltime job today while I wait for my "Big Job" to come in. Today was the first day when I caught a break, feels good working full time again and I feel like I hit rock bottom and the only way now is up!!! The break I caught today was a little one, but working a full day and the little break gave me the mentality that today is the day I turn things around for ME!!! Positive thinking and feeling much better, oddly enough my WAW texts me that she heard I was working and asked if there was any news on the 'Big Job", I answeredyes that im working as a chef in a very nice sushi resteraunt in town while I await the results of the FPL lineman job. She responed with "Great, Good Luck!!!". Not sure if she is asking because of child support payments or if she is getting curious about me, either way Im good, it doesn't matter...now to work out and have a beer...

[Eatsma]

Nice! Good luck on the new gig!

[oad]

thanks MLP

[pilot]

I would think she was just being curious. If she was concerned about child support, given what you have said about her in the past, she would have been more direct asking about it. But that is mind reading.

At any rate, good going with the new job and I hope you land the lineman job. Lots of money in that!

[oad]

well today I went by the house to pack all our stuff, We had a good chat, she opened up about her school and I listened. She seemed curious about me, asked how my work was, we reminisced a little about when our dog was a puppy...then my friend called and she asked me who it was (hasn't done that in a while...and she just seemed curious. I was in a great mood and had her laughing a lot, then I left...I feel I planted the seed of curiosity in her, she told me she plans on staying at her parents for like 3 months, then she mentioned its a good Idea if "WE" save our money. all in all a good encounter...now its time and bbq with friends. Im feeling a lot better these days been keeping busy...

[pilot]

Good to hear oad. Sounds like a good day for you, and you are right, you probably did plant a seed which will begin to sprout over the next few weeks.

[sandi2]

Good to hear.

[u-turn]

Sorry to butt in like this, but others have assured me that it would not be a problem.

Sandi - if you get a chance, could you read through my thread and give me some input. I would really appreciate this as I have read your comments to others and really like your honesty

Thanks Vet.

[oad]

no problem u turn...ive done it as well...

so ive been busy working and GAL, hence my lack of posting, working 50 hours a week and getting the house ready for renting, WAW still contacting me a lot, even though its just about the house or the girls. Yesterday she talked with her cousin and told her she plans on staying at her parents for a while and hopes one day to live in our house again, but without me, she says she just wants to start fresh(again without me). Cousin says that she sees a lot of resentment still in her and sees her as a completely different person who now just cares about her status and money. I wonder if we will ever really have another chance at this? seems she is moved on...anyone ever heard of someone coming back from this state? also she said she seemed very sad and going through some issues and took cheap shots at me, her cousin says that I should just move on that she has changed. anythoughts?

[pilot]

remember oad, believe none of what they say...