I was just catching up on your thread after having just read my horoscope, which I did not understand (you'll understand in a sec).
This may be a stretch....and could be nothing but mere coincidence.
FTR, I am a virgo, so if you are not one then maybe this is nothing really…or maybe…I was suppose to read your thread and post this. Hmmm…… (insert mystery music in the background)
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Another factor is that, pretty much on a weekly basis, Ms. Wonka pops into my dreams. Without any invitation...mind you! This has been a regular occurrence for over 10 years. I wake up disoriented and ask God, "Why, why do dreams about Ms. Wonka and her family still cross my dream state??! How come none of my other former GFs appeared in my dreams?? Why Ms. Wonka?? Can't these dreams stop already??"
Okay…here is what I just read…
Virgo, Pay attention to your dreams tonight. Although you are a very practical, no-nonsense person who doesn’t always tune in to such things, you would be wise to keep a notepad by your desk to write down whatever messages come to you nocturnally. A problem or mystery has been on your mind, and where these has been confusion there will soon be clarity – if you pay attention to the message that the universe is sending you. You have been stressed over this issue, and so the cosmos is reaching out to you to guide you.
<insert some more mystery music in the background>
LOL…this may be nothing but it was pretty weird that I had just read this, logged on to the boards and just happen to open your thread.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
In fairness, I believe you mentioned a red Ferrari in there somewhere too. I'm going to take my cane and head wax and wander away after this
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I recognize that this cannot be done just by myself. Ms. Wonka will need to be a willing participant as well. That will be the key to all of this healing process. It'll need to be a conscious choice of her own free-will.
Hmm.. I have to think some more about that part. You have unfinished business with her; you didn't with the other GF's. That may be part of the reason for doing this now and why she is in your dreams and thoughts. I don't doubt she was and will remain a special person in your life whether she chooses to assist (I suspect she will) or not.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
...Oh. I'll have to adjust the spectacles and bowtie if this darn head wax is going to work...
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
...Oh. I'll have to adjust the spectacles and bowtie if this darn head wax is going to work...
Damn, man. I always assumed you were quite debonair and handsome, but now you just got super, freaking hot. Pray tell, do you use the same wax on your Ferrari?
Don't mind me. I just have a difficult time coming to terms with the fact that I'm just too old for some men.
M38,H39 M:16Y BD:8/12 OWDB:11/12 S:11/12-5/13 "Temp" home:6/13 OW dropped:9/13 "I love you":12/13 H ring on:2/14 Depression back:5/15 "I'm done:" 7/15 H moved out: 3/16 H moved back: 12/16 Working on us: 3/17
Wonka, I just wanted to add something to the above. I do hope MsW is on board. I do. I just don't want you to stop walking this part of your journey if she isn't on board right now. Know what I mean?
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
Phew! I have had to wrestle down Ms. Antsy Pantsy to the floor several times. She wanted to send the letter to Ms. Wonka asap. My rational, Spock-like mind had to talk sense into her and talk her out of it. On and on over the entire weekend. Even as I type this...Ms. Antsy Pantsy has this high-pitched, shrill voice that says, "Wonka...it has to HAPPEN now or the sky will fall!" going off inside my noggin.
That pesky little ego talking my ears off! Wish I could say "off with her head" like the Queen in Alice in Wonderland.
My aim is to send the letter this Tuesday. And then we wait.
I do understand the antsy part of what's going on in your head. You want to get it out there and let her know what's on your mind...but it's wise to get through this holiday weekend and then send it. Tuesday will be here before you know it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Wonka I still don't understand the rationale for sending MsW this letter? I read your explanation but will it truly heal you? What is the true goal or outcome you are seeking? Just playing devils advocate
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
I have had to wrestle down Ms. Antsy Pantsy to the floor several times. She wanted to send the letter to Ms. Wonka asap. My rational, Spock-like mind had to talk sense into her and talk her out of it. On and on over the entire weekend. Even as I type this...Ms. Antsy Pantsy has this high-pitched, shrill voice that says, "Wonka...it has to HAPPEN now or the sky will fall!" going off inside my noggin.