Hi G2G... just reading along here.. and not to sound harsh, but WHY would he come back?... He's got it made!!! From what I have read you have been waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay to convenient and available for him. He does not feel any urgency to pick a side, so why should he? You have no boundaries with the children, or yourself.
At this point, it sounds to me like you are "plan B".... is that good enough for you? Don't you deserve and want better?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
Hi Magic. Thanks for posting. You and Stander are right....I've made it too easy.
The last 2 Wednesdays that he's come to see the girls, I've made plans and gone out to dinner.
Has an interaction with H last night. He asked where we went wrong, how could I forgive him because he can't forgive himself and if he came back what would it be like?
I guess this is why I was asking about signs spouse might want to come back. I don't want to get my hopes up, push him, etc but I myself am trying to figure out my next step. I guess after 2 Years though, waiting a little longer isn't too tough .
Who ever thought life could get sooo complicated?!
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