I don't think this forum is a good fit for you - those of us here have had the divorce already and are in a post-D world. Since you are still new at this, staying in Newcomers is probably a good idea where you get way more traffic and help.
That being said, I see you live in my state. I'm not a lawyer nor do I play one on TV. But Colorado is a no-fault state, and what you want isn't going to matter.
There are plenty of TV ads lately for a law firm in Denver that specializes in father's rights (I can't remember the name but in the commercial, the guy walks around with a big red D all around him), and you might find solace there. In the end, my advice to you is to get one on retainer now to protect your relationship with the kids. Until you do that, the courts don't see this as a problem.
Good luck.
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
