Hi JJAC2005! I have the same question. I have been divorced for 2 years and separated just 6 months prior to final divorce. I was thinking it was MLC but the more I read on this forum the more I think he was a WAS. There is someone else in his life and has been since separation period. It is a long distance relationship so everytime they're together it's a honeymoon. But is there hope? Can I turn this around? I just found this site too and had I known I think the outcome would be different. Who knows. I'm curious if the DB/DR rules are different for us?